Sunday, January 10, 2010

Don't Need One...

In the past 2 weeks I have...

...fixed a flat tire well enough to get it to the tire shop and have it repaired.

...figured out how to get the license plates on my truck, and did it alone.

...got 2 kids packed, through security, and on an airplane for 2 1/2 hours by myself.

...I cleaned, vacuumed, and washed my truck AND checked the fluid levels.

...I figured out what was wrong with my washing machine and fixed it all by myself.

...somehow figured out to fit Christmas into my budget.

...made some life changing decisions that have nothing to do with a man.

...hooked up my computer, internet, and printer.

...locked my keys in the truck, twice, and took care of it alone.

...changed every burnt out light bulb in the house.

...took out the trash and brought the trashcans back in the house in a timely manner (for those of you who know me, this might just be my biggest accomplishment to date lol).


So basically, I don't need a man. As a matter of fact, I don't need anyone. Just sayin'...

Thursday, January 7, 2010

Thankful Thursday

It's been a few weeks since I wrote a Thankful Thursday... It's about time to take a moment and remember the good in my life.

I am thankful for...

...the Texas Longhorns. I was a fan since waaay before I moved to Houston, but it's fun to be in a town where pretty much everybody adores them. I'll be SUPER thankful if they win tonight, too!

Texas Longhorns Pictures, Images and Photos


...my ability to fix things all by myself. My washing machine decided to completely stop working today, and I was so unhappy. I don't know a dang thing about washing machine repair, and I certainly don't have the money to pay someone to come fix it, so I was less than thrilled. But once I got over my little pity party (ok, to be honest, after I actually kicked the washing machine several times and then got over my pity party) I decided to see what I could do about fixing it. So I googled "washing machine troubleshooting" and got some ideas about what might be wrong. I then found a screw driver, figured out how to turn the water and electricity to the washer off, and set to it. Within 10 minutes, I had it in pieces and discovered what the problem was. 10 minutes after that, I was able to ghetto rig it enough that I can wash clothes, and ordered the part online to replace the broken one. Yay for me. It's a super good feeling. I am more competent than I give myself credit for.

... a brain. I really like being intelligent. I like solving problems. I like challenges. The last few days I've been working on taxes and payroll and all sorts of really interesting things at work. I like working hard and finding new solutions. It gives me a sense of self worth, and like I'm really doing something. It also makes those 11 hour workdays go much faster and smoother.

...the ability of people to grow and change and become who they want to be. Life is not stagnant. It is always moving and flowing and changing. And the people in it are constantly reinventing themselves. Who a person was is not who they have to be. Everyone has an option, and a choice, and an opportunity. Even me.

... living in the land of the free. I think so often I take that privilege forgranted. I sometimes forget the price that was paid to make that possible. I am sooooo grateful for all the servicemen and women who make it possible for me to raise my babies in this great country.

remember their sacrifice
Soldier comments and graphics


Life is beautiful. Even when it's hard.

Friday, January 1, 2010

New Years Resolutions...

So everyone has grand plans for all the things they are going to do this year. Most of which they also made plans to do last year, and failed miserably. But hey, it's a new year. And another chance to succeed.

Why do people make resolutions at the first of the year? What makes them think that the turning of the calender will somehow give them the motivation to do things differently?

I've never really been a New Years Resolutions kinda girl. I'm more of the all or nothing at whatever point I decide to do it type. My blessing and curse is that I do NOTHING in moderation. If I'm in, I'm all in. If I'm not, there is nothing you can say or do to convince me otherwise.

Obviously this has ended badly for me on multiple occasions. But at least it makes me feel like I live intentionally. Everything I do has passion and purpose and drive. Sometimes I succeed, and sometimes I crash and burn. But it's always an experience.

HOWEVER, if there is one thing that I've learned over the past year, it's that most of the things I do haven't worked. So maybe it is time for something new.

So on that note - I'm going to try to create, and complete, a list of New Years resolutions. And posting them here will make me accountable. So feel free to bug me about whether or not I'm sticking to it...

Briana Renee's 2010 New Years Resolutions

*I resolve to think before I speak*

* I resolve to actively seek God. Not passively wait for Him to show up in my life, but to make a concentrated effort to find Him.*

*I resolve to get in beach bikini shape. I have a very specific plan for this, but that's another blog, because it's complicated. But the idea is to get hot.*

*I resolve to blog at least twice a week. To share my life and my world and to be brutally honest and open.*

*I resolve to step back from unhealthy and unfulfilling relationships and begin to figure out why I allow myself to get sucked into them*


So I'll keep you updated, and let you know how it all works out. But there is one thing that I know for sure... Life and people rarely give second chances. So your best bet is to not screw up the first one.

Happy New Year!